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What’s up fellas stuck in a little situation. Long story short been dating this girl who I have a history with I have known her for 5 years on an off I broke up with my ex a little over a year ago after 5 years with her whom we are still friends with we just mutually broke up cause she has kids and wanted to focus on her kids and I understood. So I bump into the current girl Jessica recently back in November we hit it off right away she a cool chick she has the same interest as me she 2 years youngers than me really gorgeous girls little bi-polar but I work through it cause I like her so we been dating since November she really into. She lives 3 hours from me which sucks but we both weekends off and we switch off who comes to who. I don’t mind the drive its therapy to me to hit the road and think to myself. About 2 months ago we started getting serious but with that a little drama came we started arguing over dumb shit. But I just ignore it and let her think whatever.
Long story short she been in the Correctional officer Academy the last 3 months and it was hell for her and I but she graduates this Friday.
I was at her house this past weekend we had a fun time no drama spent Mother’s Day with her family etc. Sunday an hour before I was heading home, we were laying in bed and my ex texted me who I am friends with we talk a few times month if that. But my ex texted me an wished my mom a happy Mother’s Day and sent me a little photo of her and her family in the pool at Vegas. My girl saw that and flipped out on me started crying started to hit me etc 0-100 in a second. I should have been more discrete but I didn’t expect my ex to text me like that she never hits me up on the weekends and knows I have a girlfriend.
My girl was pissed she got all my stuff and through it outside got all the gifts I got for her and threw them at me crying cussing at me and told me to leave and I said wtf for? She started to ask me to let le me see your phone and I said fuck that I never asked you for your phone. I don’t have anything bad on my phone just old pics and messages from last year being single and didn’t want her to see that.
So, she got even more mad that I didn’t give up my phone and said I’m being shady etc. So, I said no I’m not, you know I’m not. But I respected her wishes after 10 minutes of drama and hit the road I had a 3-hour drive ahead of me.
The rest of that Sunday and drive back my ex was texting so much negative shit we are down she hates me I cant be be trusted bla bla.
I told her its my ex lol she means nothing to me and doesn’t impact our relationship the worst is we all pen pals or long distance friends. So, for hours she just be little me and told me are down you aren’t coming to my graduation.
And so here is the thing I want to go to her graduation this has been in the works for 3 months somehow, I got 2 days off during the week to go which wasn’t easy. Booked a room and its paid for already.
But my girl doesn’t want me to go she was on the same shit last nite telling me to cancel the room she done with me bla bla bla leave her alone don’t talk to her being dramatic.
But I know my girl she hurt over that text message but it wasn’t really that big of a deal. She has asked me to not talk to my ex and I don’t really but damn she just wish my mom a happy Mother’s Day they were close. My girl is really insecure and its sad.
I have done a lot for my girl and sacrifice a lot first time I did this for a girl ever anything of the things I did for her never done for a girl. She knows that but she tripping on me like I bang her milf mom.
So, I’ve been in this in a similar situation like this before with her and I didn’t end up going something we had plans for 2 months ago and she got upset and said if you loved me you would have gone after she repeatedly told me not to go.
So, by her not blocking my phone number and not blocking me on social media which she always does when she mad at me, does that mean she still loves me but is still hurt? And if so, do I say fuck it and still ride out the plans and see what happens. It’s a 7-hour drive to her Academy from where I live…
What do you guys think I should do? Do I go and ignore what she saying, she telling me to cancel the plans we are done bla bla leave her alone. Or go? I feel she wants me to go but is a dramatic little bitch right now. I already apologized to her in so many different ways she doesn’t seem to care based off her responses. I have 48 hours to figure this out before Thursday which would be the day I’m driving out.
Appreciate your help
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Long story short she been in the Correctional officer Academy the last 3 months and it was hell for her and I but she graduates this Friday.
I was at her house this past weekend we had a fun time no drama spent Mother’s Day with her family etc. Sunday an hour before I was heading home, we were laying in bed and my ex texted me who I am friends with we talk a few times month if that. But my ex texted me an wished my mom a happy Mother’s Day and sent me a little photo of her and her family in the pool at Vegas. My girl saw that and flipped out on me started crying started to hit me etc 0-100 in a second. I should have been more discrete but I didn’t expect my ex to text me like that she never hits me up on the weekends and knows I have a girlfriend.
My girl was pissed she got all my stuff and through it outside got all the gifts I got for her and threw them at me crying cussing at me and told me to leave and I said wtf for? She started to ask me to let le me see your phone and I said fuck that I never asked you for your phone. I don’t have anything bad on my phone just old pics and messages from last year being single and didn’t want her to see that.
So, she got even more mad that I didn’t give up my phone and said I’m being shady etc. So, I said no I’m not, you know I’m not. But I respected her wishes after 10 minutes of drama and hit the road I had a 3-hour drive ahead of me.
The rest of that Sunday and drive back my ex was texting so much negative shit we are down she hates me I cant be be trusted bla bla.
I told her its my ex lol she means nothing to me and doesn’t impact our relationship the worst is we all pen pals or long distance friends. So, for hours she just be little me and told me are down you aren’t coming to my graduation.
And so here is the thing I want to go to her graduation this has been in the works for 3 months somehow, I got 2 days off during the week to go which wasn’t easy. Booked a room and its paid for already.
But my girl doesn’t want me to go she was on the same shit last nite telling me to cancel the room she done with me bla bla bla leave her alone don’t talk to her being dramatic.
But I know my girl she hurt over that text message but it wasn’t really that big of a deal. She has asked me to not talk to my ex and I don’t really but damn she just wish my mom a happy Mother’s Day they were close. My girl is really insecure and its sad.
I have done a lot for my girl and sacrifice a lot first time I did this for a girl ever anything of the things I did for her never done for a girl. She knows that but she tripping on me like I bang her milf mom.
So, I’ve been in this in a similar situation like this before with her and I didn’t end up going something we had plans for 2 months ago and she got upset and said if you loved me you would have gone after she repeatedly told me not to go.
So, by her not blocking my phone number and not blocking me on social media which she always does when she mad at me, does that mean she still loves me but is still hurt? And if so, do I say fuck it and still ride out the plans and see what happens. It’s a 7-hour drive to her Academy from where I live…
What do you guys think I should do? Do I go and ignore what she saying, she telling me to cancel the plans we are done bla bla leave her alone. Or go? I feel she wants me to go but is a dramatic little bitch right now. I already apologized to her in so many different ways she doesn’t seem to care based off her responses. I have 48 hours to figure this out before Thursday which would be the day I’m driving out.
Appreciate your help
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