Let me tell you something about women.. LOL Look, and I'm being honest with you here. Being in my 40s now, I do have some experience with women.
Women are emotional creatures, and are an enigma. Very hard to figure out most of the time.
If you have women friends in your circle, your chances are way better than meeting and getting with strangers.
If you are good looking, obviously you don't need help attracting women.
If you are average looking like most men are, and are successful then your chances are also higher in getting women. Women like to eventually nest and want someone to look after them financially. It's just human nature.
Now look here, most women that we men think are good looking have
low self esteem. You want proof? Go to reddit Gonewild and watch all these women post their bodies up asking for confirmation from men. Even hot women have low self esteem. A woman who is very attractive to most men, might think she's not because they see the faults in their bodies and not the overall package.
Women are the best actors ever!! They always wanna look serious and appear that their shit does not stink, when in fact they know
it does. It's a fucking mind game they play to filter out the dudes who get intimidated easily.
Your best bet is to make yourself become familiar to them, for example, I have done many women from restaurants and Starbucks
cause I go there all the time, they see your face all the time, they put their guards down and become more "approachable" . Now of course me having a very very expensive car helps with breaking the ice especially at Starbucks drive through LOL but hey, if you don't have an expensive car, it'll still work. Just make yourself more familiar to them and eventually you'll be talking to them like you've known them for ever. It makes it easier because you are not a stranger to them anymore.
Another thing, invest in yourself. Look at how much women spend on doing their hair and makeup and all that shit, they want to look good. Try to take care of your appearance, save up for nice clothes, shave or trim all the time, look clean and respectful it will help a lot. Trust me, when you put on nice clothes and shoes and get regular haircuts you will feel better and more confident, women will notice you more as well.
Also, don't be fooled by their appearance, I have picked up women who look very very high maintenance, but when I took them to their pad, man they live like broke ass bums.
Now if you're only looking for a fuck, then hey, fuck it, spend few hundred bucks on a high end escort and avoid all the headaches.
One more thing, you just gotta approach and ask, don't give a fuck about rejection, because if you don't ask you'll never know. Women wants us just as much as we want them, so keep on trying, trust me there are plenty of women out there for you.
Good luck.