For what it's worth, I think you have a pretty good attitude with the feedback. I'll post some updated pictures with my progress but I'm essentially on the same path as you. I'm not trying to get to 5-6%. I would like to stick around 8-10% (I was around 13%-15% when I started dieting). I also want to be able to go to a fair, eat a hotdog and have a few beers on a Saturday. Scratch that...I will do that and you can do that if you are willing to sacrifice some physique. I'm doing it on 20mgs test and 10 mgs mast/day.
For me, I looked at the framework of what I would commit to...
1. Enjoy Saturdays with my family. Not a binge day, but sure as heck I'll be free eating
2. I will commit to eat reduced calories sunday through Friday. I prefer a carnivore based diet because it curtails my hunger. 2,500 calories on those days and usually <150 carbs.
3. I will do 30 minutes of hard biking 5 days a week
4. I will weight train hard 3, possibly 4 days a week
5. I will not take over 200mgs test / 100mgs mast a week.
That was what I committed to. It is reasonable, but will limit me. If I was strict 7 days, if I raised the drugs, etc. etc. I look at what I am willing to commit to and assess what the outcome could be (IMO) and if it is worth it. I can produce a 220 pound 10% physique from my original 15% bf physique (I actually ceased all drugs and trt for a bit) with the above plan. To me, numbers 1-5 to get the 220 and 10% is worth it. I will also likely drive cardio up so I can keep my food at 2,500.
I'd just reassess your diet to improve overall nutrient intake and structure your "free"/family time so it's more focused.